Thursday, March 31, 2011

A Few Updates and Changes in the Lambert Household

If you haven't heard we are adding to our family. Baby number two's due date is Oct. 2nd 2011. First appointment went fine. I asked a STUPID question to the nurse practitioner. When she was checking "everything" I simply said "Is there anyway I could be pregnant with twins. I just feel so much bigger at this point than I did with my first pregnancy." She laughed and said "No, everyone feels like that the second time around " She quickly found the heart beat and said " That's rare to find it that easy :)" And the appointment was over. As I was walking out the door she asked if I could come back on Tuesday and have a "quick ultrasound" She said she looked closer at my chart and saw that I had some growth restrictions with my first pregnancy and wanted to get some starting measurements. I said, "Sure." It was scheduled for Tuesday and that was that.

On Tuesday I had my mom grab Jack from preschool on her lunch break, because I just had a quick ultrasound and I would be done in less than an hour, or so I thought. I didn't bring Shawn because I didn't think he cared to see a silly ultrasound measuring my cervix :) Everything was great when I got in the ultrasound specialist measured what she was suppose to and all went well. At the end she said, "well lets get a peek at the baby" We (the ultrasound tech and I) could clearly see the baby and then there was something else. She said are you seeing what I am seeing?????? And as clear as day there was not one but TWO babies on the screen!!!! I said, "I new it. I told them at my last appointment that I thought I was having twins. I have even had dreams about it." We both stared at the two babies bouncing around on the screen for a second. I shed a few tears and then she said, "Can your husband leave work?" I jumped on the phone and told him to drop everything and come over to the Dr.s office now." He asked why, but I couldn't tell him. I knew he knew what it was (because I had said so many times that I swear we are having twins) but it was fun to leave him hanging for a bit. By the time Shawn got there the Dr. had made it in the room and was checking everything out. He asked if I did this all by myself and then laughed, well you and your husband ;) Because so many twins are conceived through fertility now a days. And I said, " It was all on our own" and No, Twins don't really run in our family. I have a great Grandpa that is a twin and some second cousins twice removed or something but that is all. So there you have it Lambert Baby number Two and Three are headed our way.

But it is not going to be an easy road. At that appointment they thought that both babies were in the same sack. Which is very rare and scary. But as of last Wed. we have found out that is not the case and that they each have there own sacks! Which is great news, but they do share a placenta. Which comes with it's own trials. One thing we learn from that is that they are identical twins, because only identical twins share a placenta (couldn't tell boys or girls yet). This type of twins are called MonoDi twins Mono meaning one placenta and Di meaning two sacks. Enough nutrients  for both babies is a concern and then there is a problem called TTTS (twin to twin transfusion syndrome) It is were twins share arteries and veins (which I guess is normal) as long as a vein matches up with a vein and an artery matches up with artery it will be fine but if they match up incorrectly (happening in 10% of MonoDi twins) than there can be a stronger and weaker twin. The ending can be bad :( We are hoping to not be that 10% and there is a cure for it if we are. Which really reassures my mind. But we hope we don't have to go down that road at all.  

This whole experience has made me realize how special it is to hold a new born healthy infant in your arms. I hope I get to do that with my twins. I am scared and still a bit shell shocked. But I know I have a lot of people on my side and great Dr.'s to help along the way. Shawn just beams when anyone brings the twins up and so does Big Bro. Jack. We have had some very awkward occasions where Jack has told complete strangers that his Mommy has two babies in her tummy :) I love that they are both so proud. Please keep the three of us in your Prayers. I know the Lord has a hand in it all.

23 comments:

Jason and Joanna said...

Congratulations and I wish you guys the best of luck!! That is very exciting!!

Molly said...

So crazy you are having twins.
Congratulations!! So excited for
Your little family. We miss you
Guys and will keep you in our prayers.

davenportreport said...

Hayley, I'm still in shock for you. I have several friends with twins and I know from them that it takes a really special person to be able to handle it. You are definitely one of those special ones. I just wonder how your little body can hold 2 babies!!

We will definitely keep you in our prayers.

xoxo

Unknown said...

Thats so AWESOME!!!! congrats

jennie said...

Hi Hayley! Congrats on your pregnancy. How exciting! I keep thinking how crazy it is that you are going to have twins because you are so tiny! :) I'm really excited for you. I'm sure everything will be great. Good luck!

Emily said...

I am so excited for you and Shawn. You guys will be in my prayers! When is your due date?

Tiffany Webster said...

Hayley! I am so excited for you.... how lucky are those two little ones to have you as their mother. You are seriously amazing and I have always thought so highly of you. Please know you will be in our prayers and that I truly hope everything goes well. Love ya and Miss ya!!

Jamie said...

HAYLEY!!!!! Hooray! Holy cow! TWINS? AWESOME!!!!! I'm so excited for you guys. I sincerely hope all goes well with the pregnancy. We will for sure keep you in our prayers. Also, if you want to get together....I would love to. :) Take care - Jamie

Jessica Reeves said...

Congrats Hayley! I'm so excited for you guys! I can't believe you're having twins! We'll keep you in our prayers!

Sharps said...

Hooray Hooray! I cant wait til you find out what you are having! If you have a shower make sure you add me to your list! I would love to come! CONGRATS!

JT, Carly, Boston, Jocelyn and Snuggles said...

Made me all teary eyed Hay! We are SOO excited for you guys and pray for you and those babies all the time.

THE HAFENS said...

Congratsto you and your family. Hope all goes well.

Rach said...

That is craziness Haley! I just had a good friend have twin boys in January {no family history of twins in their family either} and they are healthy and perfect. I hope you get the same! {we'll be praying for you} Get ready for some crazy! Can't wait to keep up on things, so keep us posted.

Melissa said...

Congrats! I am so excited for you guys, and shocked as well. You will be the perfect mommy for twins.
Hope all goes well. You're in our prayers.

tracy layne said...

Hayley this is so incredible... I am so so excited for you guys! I wish you all the best!!

5littlemunkys said...

iv been wiating for a blog entry:) i am so happy for you i will def be praying. 2 kids in one shot i am jealous.lol i think its great!

david early said...

You are always in my prayers and thoughts!

david early said...

of course that was me, Juli!

Anonymous said...

Okay, so chances are you're going to think I'm one of those crazy blog stalker people. But I couldn't keep quiet. I was bored and hopping around friends blogs today and found your blog and almost died, because I am also pregnant with twins. And they also have individual sacks and share a placenta. And they also are due on Oct. 2nd. And there also is no history of twins on either sides of our families, and we also conceived without the aide of fertility treatments (despite being told we would never get pregnant).

Anyway, how's that for a strange coincidence?

Good luck with your pregnancy! Hope everything is going well. :)

Marcie said...

Oh my gosh!! Amber told me she ran into you at the gym you told her your exciting news. Thats so crazy! I really hope and pray things go PERFECTLY for you and the twins! Love ya!

Jenna Marie said...

WOW!!! SO exciting!! What a fun surprise! CONGRATS!!!

KayDee said...

Hayley that is so awesome! Congrats toyour family and good luck with everything!!

JB said...

Congrats! We are so excited for your family :) We will be praying for you.
Julia and Nathan